Sunday, June 14, 2015

2015-03-15

From Carolyn's Letters Home:


Sunday, March 15, 2015
Happy Ides of March from Jinan, China,
Hope all of you are doing well.  We love you and can hardly believe that it is the middle of March.  Did you enjoy Pi Day?  We ate Egg (custard) Pie to celebrate.  It really is delicious and available everywhere in Jinan. 
It has been wonderful seeing your posts on Facebook.  I will try to be better at that.  We have many photos of our adventures that we want to share with you. 
This has been a good week.  When we arrived in Jinan at the end of August, it was definitely summer, and was very hot.  Gradually, the leaves began to change, the temperatures dropped and the campus reminded us of what fall must look like at Harvard or Yale.  By mid-November, we were cold and glad to have heat turned on in the buildings and our apartment.  Winter had arrived.  Though we never saw the snow, there was a little while we were journeying in SW China in January.  It was still cold when we got back just over 2 weeks ago, but magically, spring has decided to come to Jinan….so, we have lived 4 seasons in the six and a half months we have lived in China.  Amazing!
To celebrate, Richard and I went to 5 Dragons Park on Friday.  We enjoyed sitting on a bench, watching the Chinese children and discussing our future together.  As we walked around the park, we were awed by the clear pond that held thousands of gold, yellow, black and spotted fish.  Though many meters deep, we could see to the bottom because of the crystal clear springs that supply the water to this and over 70 other springs in Jinan.  We watched the beautiful Chinese children throwing bread to the fish and wished that our grandchildren could be here with us.  Chinese families, just like American families, love to take their children and grandchildren to the parks.  Jinan has many beautiful ones.
On Saturday, we went to Quenching Park, across the road from our campus.  They had rides for all ages and a pond with paddleboats shaped like swans.  The best view was from the walkway over the park.  Only a few of the flowers were out, but there are buds on the trees and within a few weeks, it will be glorious. 
Our students this semester are amazing.  Richard still has the master’s students as well as 2 of my freshman classes (8 classes in all).  I am down to 6 classes and loving the time to prepare and de-stress. 
Of the 8 BYU teachers in Jinan, 4 of us are going home at the end of this year.  The Welshes and Burnetts, both from the Seattle area, are staying.  The Robertsons, also from Seattle, will leave when we do at the end of June.  We have really enjoyed getting to know them at our Sunday dinners and other outings.  It helps to know that you aren’t alone.  We are all living an adventure of a lifetime that has opened my eyes and my heart to these wonderful Chinese people and their ancient, fascinating culture.
Thirteen years ago, this August, our family moved from Salt Lake City to Hurricane, Utah.  Little did I know then that my life would change forever.  I became an orchestra teacher, watched my last child leave home, welcomed Jessica back from her mission then off to her new life, had wonderful and exciting summers with our grandchildren and children living with us, lost my dear husband and our children’s father, tried to adjust to my “new” life, met and married my sweet Richard, inherited a whole new amazing family, learned to sail (not very well), bought a house in Baja, retired and sold my home in Hurricane and left a community that I will always love who sing my songs at Peach Days at their production of “Come See Our Valley”, moved to China where we are teaching at Shandong Medical University, bought another house in Las Vegas and will soon begin our adventures there.  And, this doesn’t begin to tell about Richard’s “adventures.”  I will let him do that.  One minute you are young and suddenly you are a grandma.  Life is a GREAT ADVENTURE!  I hope you are all enjoying the journey.  We are so proud of you and grateful to Heavenly Father for giving us such a good life…the best part is YOU!

Love,
Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa



2015-03-08

From Carolyn"s Letters Home:


Sunday, March 8, 2015
Hello from Jinan, China to our dear family and friends!  We love you and miss you and hope that life is going well for all of you. 
After almost a week of adjusting, Richard and I are finally getting used to the change in time from the USA.  Hope you are all surviving your lost hour of sleep with Daylight Savings.  J
Thankfully, my load has been reduced and I am only teaching 6 classes, two each day on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday.  Unfortunately, 2 of my freshman classes were given to Richard and he has 8 classes.  It is a good thing that he is very flexible and cheerful.  His classes are all from 8-12 on Monday-Thursday.  We both have Fridays off.  Also, Richard is almost finished preparing our 2014 tax forms as well as finalizing the inspections and repairs on the new home in Las Vegas.  He still has some hair, but it is a bit whiter than before.
Life is a great teacher and often, if we chose, we can learn a lot from our mistakes.  I am grateful to my students for surviving a new teacher last fall, who had never taught college students or Oral English before coming to China.  We talked together about the adjustments they had to make leaving home and I told them about adjustments that I had to make coming here.  Fortunately, they are kind and very forgiving.  It was a wonderful first week and I am grateful for this life changing experience.
Before our travels, I received an email from Dr. Wang, a CT doctor at Quilu Hospital.  She asked me to tutor her 12 year old son and was also anxious to show us the beautiful spots of Jinan.  On Friday, I went with her, her mother, her son and her niece to Baotu Springs Park, near our home.  It was a little cold, but the company was wonderful and the springs and park were beautifully decorated for Lantern Festival.  Her son is an exceptional artist and was excited to show me the art exhibits at the park.  Their English is very good, so I will just be helping Ky Tee improve his skills.  I feel blessed to have such kind Chinese friends.
My freshman students (2 classes) who have transferred to Richard said that they really like him and that he is very funny.  I’m so glad.   I tend to get too focused in class and forget to have fun. 
Last night, we went to a violin/piano concert at Shandong Grand Theatre.   I loved hearing them perform the sonatas by Mozart and Brahms and to my great surprise, they performed the Sonata in A Major by Caesar Franck.  I actually performed this one as part of my graduate recital at Wichita State University in April, 1975.  It was magical and reminded me that once, like Camelot, there was a young girl who also performed that sonata…so long ago.  Jinan is a city of 7 million people and has many parks, museums and performances.  Even the BYU Young Ambassadors came here 2 years ago. 
Lulu made it safely back from S. Africa.  It was so good to see her.  She spent much of her time at home volunteering at the hospital Trauma Center.  We are very proud of her and look forward to beginning our “Singles” Family Home Evenings next week with the girls.  We will miss Bryan and Omar!
As this new semester begins, we have become more aware of Heavenly Father’s love for us and His desire that we let our light so shine.  So, as Richard says “be good, work hard and have fun.” J
Thanks so much for you love and prayers.   We love you.

Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa


2015-03-01 SW China, Vietnam and Cambodia tours

From Carolyn's Letters Home:


Sunday, March 1, 2015
Dearest Family and Friends,
Can it really be March 1st?  We have now been in China for over 6 months and plan to return to Las Vegas at the end of June.  Hope this letter finds all of you healthy and happy.  So much has happened since I last wrote to you, I hardly know where to start. 
On January 20th, we left Jinan and headed south on a high speed train to Nanjing. 
Nanjing - It was sobering visiting their War Memorial Museum.  Our hearts ached for tragedies of war.  We also visited another museum that told about the grueling tests that Chinese citizens would take to show their intellect and knowledge and allow them to have high governmental positions.  This began at the time of Confucius. 
Suzhou – Another train ride and a great city to visit. Ancient walls, presidential palace and a river cruise on a boat…all to ourselves (except our guide, the captain and the crewman/salesman) We left with postcards, playing cards with photos of Suzhou and my favorite, a fold up hat.  J  We also visited a silk factory where we bought a scarf for me and a tie for Richard.
Shanghai – Another day with just Richard and me.  We really enjoyed the market and finally found a bookstore that had an English travel book that Richard wanted.  We loved the Holiday Inn and were joined that evening by 9 others and officially joined up with the “Marvin Tours”.  The next day we went to the river, the market, to the top of the Pearl Tower then saw a wonderful wax museum depicting the history of Shanghai. 
Sanya – We flew to the south end of Hainan Island to a tropical resort.  It is very much like Hawaii with beautiful beaches and warm ocean water and a gorgeous view of the harbor from our hotel. We were glad to be out of the cold and really enjoyed this beautiful place.  At one end of the beach were carvings on rocks that said “The End of the Earth, the Beginning of the Sky”.  After a short boat ride, we spent several hours on Monkey Island where the monkeys roamed freely.  We also went to two “circus monkey” shows where they performed for us.  We thought that our grandchildren would really love this island. 
Shenzhen – Just across the border from Hong Kong is a more modern city, unlike most of the ancient cities we visited in China.  We had a Polynesian Cultural Center experience there walking around miniature villages, sites and mountains of China.  We enjoyed the dancers on stilts, a private boat ride and an indoor dance extravaganza.  That evening, we went to an outdoor theater, very much like the one at PCC which depicted Chinese history through many kinds of dances (including fire dancing) and extravagant sets and costumes.  We had a great day.
Hong Kong – What a beautiful city!  We loved our YMCA Hotel (actually very nice) and were excited to see most of the other 75 BYU China Teachers as well as our directors, Jeff Ringer and his wife Amy and Jamie and Geneile Ballantine.  We were able to do a session at the Hong Kong Temple, meet with Elder Gong of the Seventy and share our best teaching ideas with each other (posted on BYU China Teachers website).  We loved watching the fireworks over the harbor and Richard and I had a special treat.  We walked across the street to the performing arts center and saw a production by the group “Riverdance”.   We wish that we had been able to spend more time in this wonderful city.
Guangzhou – Bus trip, stop at customs then to the airport in Guanzhou.  We had been lugging around 4 suitcases, much to take home to the USA, and were glad to leave the 2 large ones in the airport storage.  Off to Guilin!
Guilin – Left the boat dock in the morning and followed the river to Yangzhou.  The mountains (karst formations) lined the river and valleys with centuries-old tales about their shapes and formations (like Mt. Timpanogas).  I had left my jacket in Guangzhou thinking it would be warm.  Fortunately, my dear friend Charlene Welsh loaned me one until we reached Yangzhou where I was able to buy a new one.  We loved visiting a farming village outside the city and riding at night on a small reed boat to see the fishermen and the cormorant birds.  Each bird had a ring around his neck that allowed him to catch a fish but not swallow it.  They were trained to bring the fish to the fisherman and eventually, they would be fed.  The fish were attracted to the light in front of the reed boat.  It was definitely an adventure worth seeing.  The next day we headed back to Guilin where we went to a silk factory and bought some beautiful silk quilts.  We also toured a gigantic cave called the Reed Flute Cave where residents would hide when approaching enemy armies came to their village.  It was spectacular.
Lijiang – Rode a bus from Guilin to this ancient cultural city of Naxi people.  We visited a beautiful park where older people were dancing and doing Tai Chi.  Many of us joined in and had a great time.  We bought inscriptions from the Dongba, though he wasn’t there that day because he was visiting another village.  The small lake was beautiful with a Chinese bridge across to the other side.  We also visited an embroidery school and an old, functioning Naxi village with crystal clear water flowing through the center of the village.  We could see the beautiful snowcapped mountains in the distance.
Kunming – Airport only, but very special to me.  My father had been stationed in Burma during WW2, just on the other side of the Himalaya Mountains and done the sheet metal repairs on airplanes that would fly back to Kunming and help the Chinese fight the Japanese.  Dad died last July, just before we left for China.  I’m so proud of him.  He was only 17 when he joined the Army Air Corps.
Dali – Bus ride to this beautiful city at the foot of the Himalaya Mountains.   We stayed at a lovely (though cold) hotel next to many markets.  We watched a Bai Minority dancing and singing show and visited 3 pagodas at the foot of the mountains.  The air was clear and we could see the moon and stars.  The Bai people painted their homes white as a symbol of purity.  The women wore white tassels on their headdresses and their husband trims their tassel when they get married. 
Kunming and Guanzhou Airports – Deposited more luggage at storage, then off to Hanoi, Vietnam
Hanoi – Went to the prison where John McCain was held for part of his 7 years interment during the war.  It was very sad and we all left feeling that we didn’t want to be in Hanoi.  Fortunately, we drove for 3 hours to Halong Bay and took a 5 hour boat trip to one of the most beautiful spots on the earth.  The river was surrounded by islands and we stopped at one of them to explore a cave.  It was definitely a peaceful, beautiful, much needed trip for 2 weary travelers. 
Angkor, Cambodia – Toured 6 ancient temples (amazing) and took a river trip to a lake with floating homes (boats) filled mostly with Vietnamese refugees who had fled Vietnam and couldn’t get out of Cambodia because they weren’t allowed off the lake.  There was so much poverty.  We saw many people gathered at a cemetary at the side of the river and thought that they were burning a body, but they were just making an offering to their gods. 
Saigon – A very modern city.  We loved the night boat dinner cruise on the river and Richard and I danced to the music of the Vietnamese singers and native instrumentalists.   We went to our first Water Puppet Show.  It was very amusing and fun seeing dragons and puppets pop up out of the water.  The music and story was provided by musicians on either side of the puppet show.  They were wonderful, in spite of some of the screeching they had to do.  After the puppet show, we sat in a padded seat in front of a bicyclist who followed the lead cyclist on a one hour city tour.  Saigon (Hochimein City) was preparing for the Chinese New Year, so lights, decorations and red and yellow flowers were everywhere.  It was hard to concentrate because of the 80 or so motorcyclists and cars who were heading right for us as the cyclists would boldly ride right in front of.  Traffic in Asia is really crazy and sometimes you just have to close your eyes. 
Back to Guanzhou then to Las Vegas – 14 hour trip to LA, missed our flight, arrived at the Mirage Hotel at 3 am, dentist appointment at 9 am.
Las Vegas/SLC – Enjoyed dinner with Richard’s mom and all but Bill and Chery (we missed you).  Dinner with Carolyn’s brothers and sisters and spouses living in LV.  Chucky Cheese with the Leavitt clan for 3 ½ hours….lots of fun.  Looked for and bought a home near the Las Vegas Temple.  Met a wonderful realtor named Ann who was an angel.  Carolyn had a great visit with Mike, Lindsay, Becky, Adam, Jessica and Andy and kids in Payson, Ut.  Finalized everything on the new house after a much needed morning temple session.  Already missing our family.
Jinan – Still trying to recover from 37 days of travel.  School begins tomorrow.  Ready or not!  J
Sorry this letter is so long, but we have had so many adventures.  We feel a little like Bilbo Baggins when he said that adventures are “mean, nasty, disturbing things that make one late for dinner”.  J  Not really.  We wouldn’t have missed a single one.  Glad we can still get around.
Thank you for your support and your prayers.  We know that we have been blessed more than we could possibly imagine.  You are our greatest blessings.  May the Lord be with you always!

Love,

Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa






2015-02-11

From Carolyn's Letters Home"

(I think this may be an unfinished draft.)



February 11, 2015
Dearest family and friends,

Sorry that it has taken so long to write.  We have had a very busy schedule touring south China, Vietnam and now Cambodia.  The world it a beautiful place with many kind and generous people.  We have been treated with such respect and kindness.  We have seen glorious natural wonders that even photos can’t capture completely.  The Lord has made such a wondrous planet for us to dwell.  We have seen the everyday lives of real people who struggle to take care of their families by selling their homemade and other wares in the street markets.  We have seen beggars and farmers who spend hours every day bent over in the rice fields.  We have seen breathtaking sites that only God could have made.  I stand all amazed at His love.

2015-01-18

From Carolyn's Letters Home:

January 18, 2015
Dearest family and friends,
Hope all is well with you in the states.   We hope Josh and Rachael and the kids are staying warm in Ohio and Brigham is driving safely to San Antonio to his new job that starts on Tuesday.  Thanks to Lindsay, Jessica and Andy for all of your help in getting the Billings moved to Payson.  Richard really enjoyed his 2 hour talk with Rachel the other night.  We really miss you and look forward to seeing as many of you as we can when we are home.
We have enjoyed our week off, however, we have been busy getting everything ready for our upcoming travels (we leave our apartment at 5:30 am on Tuesday and return February 26th).  We now have 2 large 44 pound suitcases to take home, besides our carryon luggage.  We will be dragging those across China, Vietnam and Cambodia until we leave for Las Vegas on February 15th.  We will empty them in our storage unit and fill them again and bring them home in June.  J
The weather in Jinan has been cold, but the skies are blue and the air quality has been very good the past 2 days.  Yesterday morning, we visited our dear friend, Dr. Trisha at her apartment.  We met her parents, who are our age, and her little two year old boy.  It was fun watching Richard on the floor playing cars and trucks with Bao Bao (which means ‘Treasure’ in Chinese).  He and I went in the bedroom and had a wonderful time with his canister of small black beans.  It is amazing how many fun things a 2 year old can find to do with black beans.  He could also name every car in the parking lot (Honda, BMW, Toyota, etc.)  It really made us homesick for our little ones.  Trisha’s maid and her mom made homemade Chinese fried noodles (like in the packages back home, only better).  It was a very good day.
We are grateful to have our Virtual Branch and enjoyed the talks and lessons today.  Some of our members are the only ones in who live in their cities.  There is a family of seven in Harbin (yes, the city where we nearly froze).  Other cities have just 2 or 3 members.  We feel blessed to be able to meet together.  Our plans for our trip include training in Hong Kong at the end of January as well as a trip to the Hong Kong temple.  I have missed the temple!  I love the peace that I find there as well as the knowledge that in the temple, families are sealed for eternity.  I hope that you will go as often as you can and that temple attendance will be a high priority for us all.  I’m grateful for the years of service that our family members have given in the temple. 
In a few days, we will be half way through our China experience.  I know that I need to send pictures, but most of them are on Richard’s computer, so I will have him put them on my flash drive. 
Some China experiences that we mostly take for granted now are:
-tiny cars with 3 wheels (Richard wants one J)
-scooters and bikes with children riding in the back – no hands
-village fruit and vegetable markets with the same owners every day, standing in the freezing cold or burning heat
-bicycles and scooters with a small flatbed trailer behind carrying everything from recycled boxes to garbage
-street sweepers with wide homemade brooms
-cracks, dips and crevices in all of the sidewalks on campus
-friendly smiles and happy people, especially when we say “Hello” or “Ni Hao”
-getting off a crowded bus and having Richard still on the bus when it pulled away (fortunately, we had our cell phones and we were near our apartment)
-warm bedroom/cold bathroom and kitchen
-short showers (not enough hot water for two regular showers)
-laundry hung on the porches
-beautiful Chinese children who call us Meiguo [CL1] Nei Nei or Meiguo Ye Ye (American grandma and grandpa)
We miss you, we love you, and we are loving our Chinese experience. Please take care and be safe.  God loves us all and is watching over us.  Jesus is the “Savior, Redeemer of our Souls.” 
Love always,
Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa




2015-01-12

From Carolyn's Letters Home:


Monday, January 15, 2015
Dearest Family and Friends,
It is always good to know that things are going well at home.  We are so happy that David Kennedy found a job, that Brigham found an apartment and will be moving this weekend to San Antonio, TX, and that Becky and Adam are almost ready to have their carpet laid in their new home in Payson, UT, .6 miles from the new Payson Temple.  We are so proud of all of our grandchildren in their schoolwork and for the kindnesses they show to others.  Thanks Audrey and Kaitlyn for delivering cookies to the neighbors even though your walker got stuck in the grass, Kaitlyn.  We are proud of Alycia for finishing her classes and beginning her student teaching.  I could go on and on!  Thank you for keeping us informed.  We love hearing from you.  Some of you live in the snow and ice….be careful!
Here are some highlights from our week:
Monday-Friday – Taught our final classes for the first semester at SDU, then finished and turned in our semester grades.  Our students still have two more weeks of exams for their core subjects, but their Oral English classes are over.  We are very proud of them, but are ready for a rest.  Next semester begins March 2nd.
Saturday-Sunday – Took an early morning Bullet Train to Beijing and met Mark Du, Joan and Richard’s adopted Chinese son (and mine too) who is now an orthopedic surgeon.  He had a wonderful two days planned for us.  First, we went to the Opera House where “Aida” is showing.  I wish we could have seen the stage, but the building and exhibits were amazing.  After that, we toured Tiananmen Square, then the Forbidden City (across the street).  Each place was different, but the splendor and history of it all were amazing.  Saturday night we met with Mark’s friends and brother and had a delicious Chinese meal at a beautiful restaurant.  Beijing is an endless city of 20 million people.  We were grateful that our driver had voice activated GPS.  He was one of Mark’s high school friends and was very kind to drop us off and meet us whenever we were ready to switch places.  That evening, we returned to Mark’s apartment, a 10 minute walk from the hospital where he works.  He lives with another doctor named Michael and Michael’s sweet wife, Angel.  She truly was an angel to us.  Even though we were full, they had many snacks set out for us and the next morning, Angel’s father, who was visiting from Szechuan, made a delicious breakfast. 
Sunday – We hated missing church, but really enjoyed another wonderful day with Mark.  He took us to the 2008 Olympic Village (Birds Nest).  It was beautiful and exciting to be able to be there.  I still remember watching the Opening Ceremonies and being completely “blown away” by them.  We went to the building that was shaped like bubbles that had the Swimming events.  There was an area where families were swimming in several pools with water slides, tropical trees and flowers.  It was wonderful.  There were also two other pool areas, one where the events took place.  After the Olympic Stadium and lunch at a Hot Pot restaurant, we visited a park dating to the 1400’s which had temples and courtyards for Sacrifices.  The buildings were in perfect symmetry and they even had the centuries old decorated urns where their sacrifices were burned. 
It was hard to say goodbye to Mark.  He insisted on staying until we were through the gate to get onto the train.  I see why he has always been so very special to Richard and Joan and their family.  Several times he mentioned Joshua and Rachel and how he felt enjoyed their visit and felt that he and Josh were alike in many ways. 
I also had my first experience with Chinese acupuncture this past week.  Unfortunately, it didn’t help my neck and shoulders, but I can say that I did try something “new”.   J
We love and miss you all and pray for you and your safety and happiness.  The Lord is watching over each of us and is very aware of our joys and sorrows. 
Love always,

Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Dad, Richard, Grandpa 

2014-01-05

From Carolyn's Letters Home:

January 4, 2015
To our dear family and friends,
Life in Jinan is very good.  We can hardly believe that this Friday, January 9th, we will finish our first semester at SDU.  As the song goes “our life as a dream, our time as a stream.”  We hope that all is well for everyone at home and this new year will bring great joy and happiness to you.  Our virtual branch president has given us a challenge to set new goals to be more like the Savior and his other challenge is “what  happened in 2014, stays in 2014.”  What he means is that we need to leave our mistakes in the past and try to be better this year, try to start the new year with a clean slate in our personal lives and in our relationships with others.  I love you all and hope that you will forgive me for the mistakes I have made in the past. 
We have had an exciting week!  Besides teaching every day, we did the following:
-Monday – Our last night with our BYU Idaho boys, Bryan and Omar.  We already miss them and the joy they brought into our lives and our home.  All of the singles came to say goodbye.  We went to dinner at Southside Story Restaurant, then back for one last game of Farkle and many goodbyes.  Wandale and Lulu were there.  They will be coming by tonight to celebrate his birthday, then we probably won’t see any of them until the end of February when we return from the USA.
-Tuesday – Symphony concert at SDU Main Campus.  All I can say is WOW!  These students were fabulous.  They played the music of Dvorak, Brahms, Mozart and many other selections, then ended with a full choir and orchestra on the finale of the Beethoven’s 9th Symphony.  I have played almost every number they performed and was so grateful that Richard and I could go.  The line to get in was so long that they had to turn away many students who wanted to come.  We were fortunate to have reserved seats.  There were students crammed into the aisles (sitting) and around the sides of the auditorium for the 90 minute performance.  I’m sure that it was a fire marshall’s nightmare.
- Wednesday – Teaching, grading and packing for Harbin
- Harbin – We flew north for 2 hours and landed in 20-30 degree below freezing Fahrenheit temperatures in Harbin, China.  None of us came totally prepared and we all had to buy extra face masks, gloves, hats, hand and feet warmers.  Even then, our fingers still felt like they were going to break off from the cold when we took them out of our gloves to take a photo.  We were so glad to be back in Jinan’s “balmy” weather.  Actually, it is much warmer than it was when we left.  On our Harbin trip, we saw Chinese men and women swimming in the freezing lake.  We were all amazed as it was our first attempt to take pictures in the bitter cold and our fingers were numb!  Richard took some videos we will have to show you later.  We went down a slide made of ice and Richard sailed over the ice on a sailboat with ski’s on the bottom.  He loved it.  I was too cold to try that adventure, but enjoyed watching him have so much fun.  He can’t wait to get home and get his boat on the water again…but no arctic sailing for me.  We then went to Sun Island and walked along the ice covered paths to see some of the most amazing snow sculptures in the world….animals, people, castles, etc.  After that, we went to a tiger refuge with tigers, white tigers and a colony of ligers in a natural environment (though I don’t know what is natural about living in the snow in sub zero degree temperatures) J.  The next stop was the Ice Festival, like Disneyland, only made of ice.  There were castles, cars, fish, people and hundreds of other amazing carvings, all illuminated by the colored lights imbedded in the ice.  After taking a horse drawn carriage ride around the park, we had a photographer take us on a walking tour where she took us to every site and took great photos.  Our friend, Mary Morgan who teaches in Xi’an came with us.  It was a little pricey, but definitely worth saving our fingers.  It was also breathtakingly beautiful.  We will send some pictures, but you might want to check out Harbin, China on the internet.  We loved our trip and had a great flight home to Jinan Saturday afternoon.
-Sunday – What a wonderful day it was with our Jinan group.  Our numbers were few (only 7), but we were still one of the largest groups reporting in after sacrament meeting.  They mentioned today that they don’t know of another branch like this in the world (virtual) that covers the distances that we cover.  I believe that we have members all over China.  Tonight Wendale and Lulu will come over to celebrate his birthday.  We probably won’t see him again unless we go to South Africa one day.  He leaves soon to begin his 18 month residency in S. Africa.  Lulu is a member of the church and is the only member on our campus, other than Richard and me.  Wendale and Lulu are boyfriend and girlfriend and met here in China.  Ironically, their parents only live a few kilometers apart in a town near Johannesburg.  We are glad to know them both.  We hope to keep the singles group going after we return from the USA at the end of February.
Best wishes to all of you.  We hope Becky and Adam’s move to Payson, UT went well, that Brigham was able to find a great apartment so he can begin his new job in San Antonio, TX in a few days, that Melody and David are successful in their job hunting and that all of you are doing well in your work and with your families.  We love and miss you.  May the Lord bless you always!
Love,
Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa

  

2014-12-28

From Carolyn's Letters Home:


December 28, 2014
Dear family and friends,
Happy New Year to you all!  We hope that this year has been a great one for you and that next year will be even better. 
We have had a very busy Christmas week.  Besides teaching every day, including Christmas, we did the following:
Monday night:  Singles FHE (food and farkle….again….they love it) 
Wednesday night:  Dinner with Jinan BYU teachers, then Bryan and Omar came over.  We read the Christmas story, sang songs and ate goodies.  It was a very special Christmas Eve that we won’t forget.  They gave us a porcelain cat (we call him Bomar as well as an Erhu for me)  They are leaving on Tuesday and we will really be missed!
Thursday, Christmas day:  Special night with our Jinan group at our apartment.  We played games, ate Chinese food and snacks and watched “It’s A Wonderful Life.”  The boys brought a Chinese friend, Melody and they watched “Elf”.  We really enjoyed being together.
Friday: Adam Yang picked us up at our apartment and took us to his home where we ate dumplings, pizza, salad, fruit and cake.  His wife, Susan, two nieces, little 7 year Jessica and 7 other friends were there.  We really enjoyed learning about Chinese New Year from Peter, their 17 year old friend.
Saturday afternoon: Trisha and her son, Bill came to our apartment.  We played Bingo and a game called Left, Center, Right then made No Bake Cookies.  We loved their company and appreciate their friendship.
Sunday: Church (my last one for 2 months with our group) at the Hanlin Hotel.  Richard will be there next Sunday, but I will teaching and we will be in Beijing on the 11th then traveling throughout China the rest of the time.  Today at 5 pm, we will have dinner with the other foreign teachers.  They asked us to bring white elephant gifts.  We found some old (still edible) Moon Cakes from the Moon Cake Festival in September.  We think they may “take the cake” for bad prizes.  J
As this semester and year draws to a close (Jan. 9th), we are grateful for all of you and for the opportunity to be in China.  We loved Skyping and talking on the phone with you this week and hope that you will know that you are loved and missed. 
Love from China!

Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa

2014-12-21 Merry Christmas From Jinan

From Carolyn's Letters Home:


Sunday December 21, 2014
Dearest Family and Friends,
How are you?  We are very proud of your accomplishments and the wonderful children, parents and grandchildren you are.  We feel blessed to be part of your lives. 
Richard and I have had a good week.  He is almost finished with his unit “What it means to be Human.”  As an attorney, his classes went deeper and were more legalistic than mine.  I’m very proud of him for being able to take this important topic and inspire his students to think at that level.  When does life begin?  When does it end?  Who decides?  Will they?
I have now listened to approximately 500 recitations of the poem “The Road Not Taken” by Robert Frost.  Fortunately, I love this poem and am grateful that almost 500 students at SDU can now recite it for memory.  They were graded for memory, pronunciation and feeling.  Richard came to one of my classes and recorded a few of them.  At times, their recitations brought me to tears.  I hope that this poem will help them in their future choices as it has for mine. 
We had a fun time shopping for cardstock paper and printer cartridges yesterday.   We enjoyed eating noodles at an eatery near the Central Campus and would have stayed longer, but it was very cold.  Today, Sunday, is also cold.  I’m grateful for the heat that we have in our apartment.  Some rooms are warmer than other, but we do have blankets and jackets and in a few weeks, after Harbin (Brrrr) and Beijing, we will be heading south to much warmer weather and exciting travel adventures!  When we return at the end of February, it should be much warmer in Jinan.
As I am sitting at my Chinese desk, my thoughts are drifting to Christmases in America with our families.  I’ve been trying to remember a time when I didn’t have family (other than my husband) for the holidays.  Since I didn’t go on a mission, I can’t think of any.  This year, especially, I’m grateful to have Richard, our Jinan church group and our China Virtual Branch to share this season of love and good will.  Today, we enjoyed a beautiful sacrament meeting with scriptures and musical numbers about the Savior’s birth.  I am attaching the program for you.  As you will see, participants were from all across China.  I grateful that I could share the song “Angels We Have Heard on High” on my violin.  Gloria, in Excelsis Deo!  
Many years ago, with the help of my daughter Liz, I wrote a children’s song, “Christmas Love.”  The words are:
“In a manger far away, the infant Jesus humbly lay, and the stars shown round and the moon looked down, and they all were made by Him.
Mary held her baby fair, Joseph watched with tender care, and the cattle lowed, and the sheep knelt down, and they all were made by Him.
Children sing the carols clear, fathers, mothers everywhere, sing of Jesus’ birth, and His love for us, for we All were made by Him.”
This little baby’s birth and life would and still does change the world.  I am grateful for Him and grateful to know that He knows and loves me, individually and personally and accepts me with my faults and shortcomings and wants me to come to Him.  May we all come closer to our Savior this Christmas.  He is the Reason for the Season!
Merry Christmas to you All!  We love you!
Love,

Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa

2014-12-14 11 Days Until Christmas

From Carolyn's Letters Home


11 Days Till Christmas
December 14, 2014
Dear Family and Friends,
It’s Sunday night in Jinan and only 11 days until Christmas!  Including this week, we have 4 weeks of classes until the semester ends on January 9th.  From the 9th until February 26th, we will be traveling in China as well as spending 9 days (including travel) at home in Las Vegas for Rachel and Robs’ wedding.  We are looking forward to seeing as many of you as we can while we are home.
We have had a great week.  I hope that my students have enjoyed getting to know about Christmas in America.  I really liked sharing our traditions with them.  We will be very busy getting all of our grades recorded and submitted and will definitely welcome a break from teaching.  Good news…for me.  I may only have to teach 6 classes in the spring…on Tuesdays, Wednesdays and Thursdays.  That will be wonderful and will allow us to travel and to see more of Jinan.  Hopefully, Richard and I will have at least a Monday or a Friday together.  The best scenario would be for us to have the same schedule, but we will be happy with whatever we are given.
We had Tithing Settlement with our new branch president, President Lainhart on Monday night, over the phone.  We are getting used to our 2 hour block and Sunday dinner with our friends.  I know we will miss all of them when we return to the states next summer. 
The most fun and interesting day we had this week was yesterday (Saturday).  We went with Adam and Susan Yang (Dr. Adam) and their friends to Debai Hot Spring, about  1 ½ hours drive from Jinan.  It was a beautiful resort with many furnished condos to rent as well as a luxury hotel, water and beautiful bridges.  There were over 50 natural Hot Springs that we enjoyed, well some of them.  The fountains, cliffs and caves were manmade, but looked natural and were very beautiful.  It was wonderful being with our friends.  They brought their 7 year old “adopted” granddaughter and we all enjoyed her bubbly personality.  She is learning English at school and it was fun communicating with her.  We also had a wonderful “healthy” lunch which included shrimp, vegetables, donkey meat and cicada bugs.  Adam loves donkey meat and cicada and talked me and Richard into trying them.  I tried them and decided that, even though they are considered very healthy and I’m glad that I tried them, they probably won’t be on the menu the next time I am at a Chinese restaurant.  Richard, on the other hand seemed to enjoy both.  J  I will post pictures on Facebook of our delicacies.
The hot tubs were very relaxing and helpful to my sore muscles.  One of the most interesting tubs was an indoor tub filled with tiny fish.  Richard and I, again, were brave and climbed in with the fish.  It was a very strange sensation to have hundreds of tiny fish nibbling on your feet and legs, but definitely a great way to get rid of the scaly buildup from our Las Vegas summer.  We could immediately see the difference when we climbed out of the water.  Thanks to Adam and Susan and their friends for sharing an unforgettable day.  Thanks to the gracious employees at the spa for watching over two “strange” Americans.  It was definitely a 5 star spa and a 5 star experience.  We will also be spending December 26th with the Yang family celebrating Christmas and Chinese New Year.
Richard and I spoke today in Sacrament Meeting.  It is a little scary not knowing who the other 75 people were listening to us, but the Lord was with us as we spoke about the prophet Joseph Smith.  I am so very grateful to him for the truths that he brought to the world and the knowledge that Jesus and Heavenly Father have bodies of flesh and bones and that we are created in their image and can one day be like them.  To know that the little baby, laid in the manger was the creator of this world and loved us and we loved him, before we were born, gives Christmas a special meaning.
May your Christmas memories this year be happy and filled with joy.  We love you more than we can say!
Love,
Carolyn, Mom, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa



2014-12-0 Joint Bios

When you serve in China, everyone wants you to tell your story. Everybody has a story. Of course, nobody can remember the stories, so whenever you are invited to speak (often) or to meet a new group of people (seems almost daily), the coordinator always asks you to provide a biographical sketch. Here is one we provided:


Carolyn was born in Pocatello, Idaho, with a song in her heart. Her family moved to Las Vegas, Nevada, and Columbia, South Carolina before she was five. She began playing violin at age 9. Her decision to continue playing violin at age 13 defined much of her life. She studied music education at the University of South Carolina and graduated from BYU, then a Master of Music from Wichita State.  She taught orchestra in Ogden, Utah, where she met and married Mike Ferrin. As he worked in Richfield and Tropic, Utah; Yakima and Wenatchee, Washington; and West Valley City and Hurricane, Utah; Carolyn taught private violin lessons and performed in local symphonies. She began teaching orchestra and choir at Hurricane Intermediate School in 2002. In August 2010, Mike passed away. She has served as ward organist, choir director, Primary, Relief Society as well as achievement day leader.  She has also loved her callings as a visiting teacher.

Richard was born in Las Vegas, Nevada. He left to attend BYU. While there he married Joan Woodbury. He received a degree in business management-finance, served 5 years as an Army officer in Virginia and Alaska, developed an Alaskan financial consulting practice, moved to Louisiana, gained a law degree from Tulane Law, returned to Las Vegas, practiced law for 10 years, and served with Joan as a China Teacher from 2006-2008. Joan passed away in August 2010, after a long illness.  Richard has served on the high council, elder’s quorum president, bishopric, Sunday School president, home teacher as well as a temple worker in the Las Vegas and St. George temples.

Richard and Carolyn met at a regional singles conference in February 2012, and married in June. They lived in Hurricane until she retired in May 2014, then moved to Las Vegas. They now share 12 children and 20 grandchildren.


2014-12-02

From Carolyn's Letters Home


December 1, 2014
Dearest Children, Grandchildren, and Family,
Sorry I didn’t get my weekly letter written last night.  I had a rough weekend and was in bed from eating some “bad” almonds from the local market.  It also rained for 3 days and my body was having a battle with my arthritis.  So glad that the sun was shining and the sky was blue today.  The temperature, however did a dive and there is ice on the walkways.   I am, however, feeling much better and am grateful for my good health.
So happy that you all had good Thanksgivings.  We loved getting the updates from Celise and family at the beach house and are glad that they are creating happy memories there.  We are excited to go back next summer.
Our tickets are purchased and we will be in Las Vegas in February.  We have now been in Jinan for over 3 months.  I think that part of my blood is now Chinese.  I do love my students and the kind people we have met here in China.
Last Monday night we had 5 young people to our home for Family Home Evening.  We played “Farkle,” ate popcorn and had a great time.  We have prepared the hot chocolate and cookies for tonight, but really won’t be surprised if they don’t come.  It is all walking and riding buses in the freezing cold.  I am grateful for the heat we now have in our apartment and for the space heaters that heat the rooms that don’t have heat.  Welcome Winter!
My dear friend, Dr. Trisha came to visit me again today.  She is a medical doctor at a hospital not far from here.  She came on her scooter…in the cold.  We had a wonderful visit.  I am grateful to have her and Dr. Adam Yang, our two dear friends who watch over us.  Adam invited us to his home for dinner yesterday, but we had to cancel because of my illness.  He wants to take us with his family to the South Mountains of Jinan in the spring.  He promised to teach me to fish.  I am really looking forward to that.
This week we talked about Thanksgiving and of course, I told them about my family…all of our children and grandchildren.  They loved your photos and I was a very proud mom and grandma. J
This week we will be working on our poem “The Road Not Taken” by Robert Frost.  All of my student have to recite it for memory, with good diction and with feeling.  I love that poem.  It is my favorite poem because it has guided my life since I was in high school and sang it with the Dreher High School Choir in Columbia, S.C.  Richard is already talking about Christmas with his students. 
We hope that this holiday season will bring you great happiness and joy.   May we all remember the true meaning of Christmas. 
We love you more than we can say.  Wish we could be home for the holidays, but next year we will be. 

Love,
Mom, Carolyn, Grandma, Richard, Dad, Grandpa



2014-11-23

FromNovember 23, 2014 Love From China
Dearest Children, Grandchildren and Family,
It has been a wonderful Sabbath in Jinan.  Right now I am listening to the “Hallelujah Chorus” from “The Messiah” and missing playing with the SW Symphony and Chorus and the Hurricane Community Messiah performances.  These were always my favorite concerts of the year.  I often held back tears from rolling down my violin.  Truly, Handel was given this music as a gift to the world testifies that Jesus Christ lives.  At this season of the year, I give thanks for all of you and for Him.  I know that my Redeemer liveth and that He shall stand at the latter days upon the earth, King of Kings and Lord of Lords!
I am glad that I’m not too old to learn something new.  One of our BYU Idaho boys told me about a program called freemake.com that allows me to easily download clips from YouTube and the internet to use in my classes.  It was fun showing the kids about things that I had only been able to talk to them about in the past, such as a what our robot vacuum, Robbie looks like and why he is “part of the family.” J  Is he Human?  J  We also watched a clip about the “Jibo” robot…definitely worth checking out on YouTube.
Yesterday, Saturday, we enjoyed a one day trip to Beijing.  Thanks to our friend from St. George, Liz Bowler who invited us, and thanks to Richard for making sure we had train tickets, we spent a wonderful day with her, the Shaws from Tianjin, and a teacher from Liz’s school, Carola and her 4 children.  It was great being “Grandma and Grandpa” for a few hours.  The children were Emma, age 10, Bryan, age 8, Ian, age 7 and Colin, age 4.  I even told them a Skylighter story. 
Our day began with a 1 hour 50 minute ride on a bullet train from Jinan to Beijing (Richard and Joan used to have to take the overnight sleeper train to get there).  The train is electric, so it hardly makes any noise and averages about 180 mph.  The skies in Beijing, unlike Jinan, were blue and beautiful.  Although it was a little chilly, we enjoyed the “Dirt Market” with its hundreds of outdoor vendors.  We bought several things, including 2 beautiful vases that we will enjoy and hopefully will arrive with safely in Las Vegas next summer.  We then went to a Christian wood carver’s shop and admired the beautiful carved nativity sets and Noah’s Arks.  There was also a carving of Lehi’s “The Tree of Life”.  There are so many great artisans in China.  It was my first, but not last trip to Beijing.  I still haven’t seen any of the “big” attractions such as the Great Wall and Tienaman Square. 
We have pretty much finalized our travel schedule for January and February.  It is as follows:
Jan 1-3: Harbin (Ice Castles)
Jan 20-21: Nanjin
Jan 22-25:  Suzhou and Shanghai
Jan 25 -26:  Sanya and Tianya Hao and beach time
Jan 27:  Monkey Island
Jan 28: Shenzen
Jan 29:  Fly to Hong Kong
Jan 30, 31, Feb 1: BYU China Teachers Hong Kong Conference and Temple Session
Feb 1: Fly to Guilin
Feb 2: Boat from Guilin to Yangshao do the Li River
February 3: Fly to Kunming and Lijiang
Feb 5: Fly to Dali
Feb 7: Fly back to Kunming,
Feb 8-15: Vietnam and Cambodia
Feb 16- 25 Las Vegas (USA J)
Feb 25 Back to Jinan

We are excited to come to see Rachel and Rob married and sealed in the Las Vegas Temple, hopefully on February 21st.  We hope to see most of you while we are there. 
We will be teaching Thanksgiving Day, but are planning to attend a Thanksgiving dinner this Saturday at the main campus Hotel (private dining room) with about 30 other “foreign” teachers and a few foreign students.  The hotel restaurant is baking our turkeys and we are all bringing the trimmings.  I haven’t been able to find pies, but we are going to have a feast, nevertheless and of course, overeat. J  What are your plans?  We would love to know.
As we count my many blessings this Thanksgiving, we know where to begin.  YOU are at the top….our families that we love so much.  We pray for you and hope that your life is happy.  I want to have a more grateful heart, especially this time of year.  Richard and I were looking at our ancestry and I am a direct descendant of William Brewster and several of the Pilgrim colonists.  Richard’s ggg+ uncle who wrote a book that charted New England and his ggg+ grandfather was a resident in Plymouth Colony.  It is certain that William Brewster knew Richard’s uncle.  I don’t know about Mike and Joan’s connections, but they might have been acquainted.
We love you sooo much!  Happy Thanksgiving!
Love,
Mom, Grandma, Carolyn, Richard, Grandpa, Grandpa Richard Carolyn's Letters Home



2014-11-09

From Carolyn's Letters Home

Sunday, November 9, 2014
Dearest Children, Grandchildren and Family,
How I love and miss you all!  It is always fun to follow your YouTube posts and emails.  I still can hardly believe that we have almost instant communication across the world!  I guess, coming from a past with no computers, cell phones, microwaves or even calculators, that I have seen a lot of changes in my lifetime. 
I often wonder what your lives will bring.  We have been talking about “What it means to be Human” in my classes.  So far, the only two things that everyone seems to be able to agree upon are that humans cook their food and that they wear clothes because they feel the need to wear clothes to cover themselves.  Will your futures include human-like robots who talk to you?  I don’t know, but it has been an interesting discussion with students who are much smarter than their teacher.  The only thing that I can claim is that I am a better English speaker, in most cases, than they are…which I guess qualifies me for the job? J  They say that the teacher learns more than the student.  This is definitely true in my case.  I love my students and am grateful to be in China.
This past Monday evening, Richard and I had 2 medical students from South Africa to our home for dinner.  Lulu is from a village outside of Cape Town and Katia is from Cape Verde.  They are both beautiful and smart.  Lulu is the only member of the church on our campus, besides us.  She is a junior.  It is difficult for her and I am grateful for her desire to stay strong and one day return to her home as a physician to her people.  Katia is my English student and is an amazing young woman.  We hope they will come to visit us and feel at home in our apartment.
On Tuesday, our Jinan group met at Pizza Hut and had a delicious American meal.  Afterwards, some of them came to our apartment.  Most of them had to go home because of early classes, but Bryan and Omar, two returned missionaries from BYU Idaho who are teaching at a Woman’s University not far from our campus, stayed and the 4 of us played Farkle.  Thanks to Mark and Linda and Melody for showing us how to play.  Of course, the boys had played it before, so we had a great evening.  The carmel corn from the street vendor down the lane was also delicious.
It has been cold this week in Jinan, so we have had to wear our warm clothing.  The heat in our apartment should be turned on November 15th.  We are fortunate that we have several space heaters.  We loaned 2 of them to the boys because they were freezing in their apartment.  It feels good to be able to help.
Friday night our new friend, Liz Bowler from St. George, Utah came to spend 2 nights with us.  We met her on the Silk Road trip in October.  She teaches 1st grade in Teda, a city close to Tianjin.  Amazingly, she spent the past three years teaching 3rd grade at Valley Academy in Hurricane, Utah!  What a small world.  Liz spent an hour on a subway, then two hours on a bullet train and arrived at 9:30 pm.  While we were waiting for her, we met a wonderful young man at the train station.  He is an Engineering Student at another university in Jinan and his English was very good.  His home is 40 minutes west of Shanghai where he grew up on a farm.  Just before Liz arrived, he told me that he didn’t have an English name and was wondering if I could recommend one to him.  I told him that I had a son named Michael and he loved the name.  So, Mike, you have a wonderful young Chinese student who is named after you!  We exchanged cell phone numbers and will be keeping in touch. 
We so enjoyed our visit with Liz.  The boys met us at 10 am and we all went to Baotu Springs where Richard gave us all a great tour.  The springs are ancient and constantly bubbling. The 3 temples are more modern, but the design and statues are exact replicas taken from ancient Chinese scrolls.  I think that I have written about these before.  I will try to send pictures.  I had some on my smart phone from the US, but sadly, I lost my phone.
After touring the park, we took an hour long boat ride that connects four springs and a beautiful lake called Daming Lake.  China is beautiful!  I am excited to see as much as we can this year.
For late lunch, we ate an American hamburger at a new “American” restaurant, then came back to our apartment and watched the movie “2012”.  It was a memorable day with these young teachers.
Church is always a highlight of our week.  How grateful we are to know that no matter where we are in the world, we will have “family”. 
Our Relief Society newsletter came out yesterday and I found out that one of the counselors in our branch is Brother Knox, Inger Durkin’s dad.  Her mom Peggy wrote an article about her grandson Gabe.  I have taught Gabe and his brother Christian and his sister Alana Murdock.  I knew their grandparents were here, but I didn’t realize that they were in our Virtual Branch.  All roads must lead to Hurricane!  J
Hope all of you are having a happy life and enjoying your families.  Life is short and the time with the little ones goes so quickly.  We are very proud of all of you and grateful to be part of such an amazing family.
Love,

Mom, Grandma, Carolyn, Grandma Carolyn and Richard, Grandpa, Dad, Grandpa Richard

2014-09-01 Day 5

This is from Carolyn's letters home

Day 5, Continued – It has rained for 2 nights and the sky is completely blue.  We went to Baotu Xuen Springs, just across the street from the North Gate of our campus.  It is a beautiful park with many pools of crystal clear water bubbling up from underground.  Jinan has many springs.  This one is special because there is an outdoor theater and 3 buildings dating back about 200 years that have statues inside that were made by following an ancient record they found in this area.  The statues seem to relate to the family and their relationship with God.  It was a profound experience for me.  As we walked home, I looked up and saw the moon and some stars.  Jinan is a beautiful city.

Day 6, Thursday, September 4 – Adam Yang came to visit us today.  It was wonderful to see him.  He brought us a very large bag filled with different tins of moon cakes to be eaten in honor of the moon festival this Monday.  He is such a nice man.  We also spent a good part of the day with Robin setting up our bank account and getting our student card.  He has been very patient with us and we are grateful for his help.  Been working on lesson plans and outlines for next week.  I am so excited to meet my new students.

Day 7, Friday, September 5 – We spent the day at the main campus in training with the other International teachers.  I thought there would be many teachers, but there were only about 15 of us on 4 campuses.  One teacher is from Russia, another from Spain, one from India and another from Canada.  Mostly, we were from the USA and some of the teachers had taught all over the world.  We had a great meeting with our wonderful Chinese University hosts.  They arranged for us to eat an excellent buffet at the on campus hotel.  Richard and I came home and Robin came over and spent almost 3 hours helping us get our internet working again.  Thank you!


Day 8, Saturday, September 6 – Today we had planned to go to on the campus tours with the other teachers.  Richard opened his email and there was a letter from Du Chuan Chou (Mark Du) who was Joan’s student as a sophomore medical student.  He said that he would be at our apartment at 10 am and wanted to take us to lunch.  He had made a special trip from Beijing to be with us, so, of course, we decided to go with him.  He was so happy to see Richard.  Richard is “family” to him and he lovingly included me in the circle.  Mark is now an orthopedic surgeon in Beijing.  We thought that we would be going to a restaurant for lunch, but he took us to his hotel and had reserved a gorgeous room with a large round table, padded benches, and our personal waitresses.  It was incredible.  The food was also wonderful.  But, best of all, he invited his family members who live in Jinan to join us.  I’m not exactly sure how they are all related, but his two cousins (brother and sister) and her husband and their father joined us.  They were so kind.  We ate and talked for over two hours.  His cousins took us to their family business called KTV which is a shop that has many booths where you can go and record yourself with a karaoke background.  They are also interior designers for high class homes and hotels.  Their work is exquisite.  I would love to have them decorate our home.  They said that they would always be there to help us and that we were family.  I am so impressed with Chinese people and their work ethic.  I especially love how kind they have been to us.  I also haven’t mentioned the many shops and food stands around our apartment.  It is such an adventure to be here.